Breaking the Boy Code

The Labels on Boys’ Masks

Episode Summary

We often talk with boys about wearing ‘masks’ that hide our vulnerability or authenticity from the people around us. Yet the reality for boys of colour is that they often don’t get to choose the labels that get put onto them by others.

Episode Notes

With that in mind, we discuss the dynamics of trust within family and friendships, the impact of racial stereotypes, and the emotional masks boys wear to navigate societal expectations. Through exercises and reflections, we unpack what it means to choose what to show the world and what to keep hidden.

From Betsa’s struggle with being misjudged at school to Siddiq’s battle with exclusion and stereotypes, their stories shed light on the resilience required to stay true to oneself despite societal pressures.

SOURCES

Ashanti Branch, The Masks We All Wear